A common problem faced by students in exam time is of comparion. When we talk to our friends invariably one question comes up from the most desperate student of the group,' Kitna ho gaya yaar" If his preparation is above your expectations(which is always more or less exaggerated), you land yourself in a whirlpool of dilemma, tension....
What can be the reason for this::
A person is good because either he is good or he lacks the courage to be bad.
I know you are good because you are good. So as your inherent nature goes, you tend to see the good things in others without counting on the bad/wrong doings and compare it with your package. This develops a "complex". Sounds discouraging, hard to digest , but need to gulp the facts.
One cannot analyse the exact position of other's preparation. Its something like comparing the ROI of one company with turnover ratio of other, which can give no result.
So the final mantra... " Don't Discuss Studies"
There are a zillion things to learn and talk about, but a few needs deserve a veil such as your wealth, mates, preparation etc. As they say, "Nazar lag jati hai".
So don't be overzealous, to share your preparations with others otherwise it may amount to"Aa Baill mujhe mar"
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
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